Archive | November, 2007

Learn Kama Sutra

30. November 2007

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Kama sutra: a book written well over a Millenia ago in India for male citizens on how to please and how to be pleasured. As well as acrobatic and sculptural positions, there includes advice for massage, fellatio, cunnilingus, kissing, touching and penis/vaginal compatibility. Many uneducated and uncultured people nowadays see it only as the source [...]

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Kama Sutra Positions – Satisfying Your Women To The Max

26. November 2007

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So which of the Kama Sutra Positions can satisfy your women immensely and help her to achieve multiple orgasms? Women now are more concerned about having sexual satisfaction, and how they are treated before and after sex.In the Kama Sutra manual, there are a lot of different techniques, skills, and etiquettes that are essentials for [...]

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Keeping The Kamasutra Nice And Simple

22. November 2007

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Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That’s right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!The [...]

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India Journal – I’m Having a Hard Time With…

18. November 2007

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It is very difficult for me to see how a Hindu in India could have ever, at one time, understood, embraced and practiced the Kama Sutra let alone the Tantric Arts. It is as though sexuality, regardless of any sacred aspect, is something so course here that it has been reduced to staring at women’s breasts, teasing and intimidating and generally playing for the fool any woman who might happen to simply walk by. It’s very hard to handle.I have my tall, gorgeous, twenty-three year old daughter with me as I’m traveling through India. She is an intrepid traveler, going places on her own I could only dream of being brave enough to go to but she is often brought to her edge by Indian men. And women. The men won’t let her be. There is always some man, young or old, who is outright staring at her, bumping her or harassing her. It’s sad and alarming. It makes travel here uncomfortable a lot of the time. I even get some of it myself, at my age. It has put us in deep wonder about women’s lives here.Women in the villages and small towns, which is most women, won’t come out of their dark, smoky, hidden little kitchens if the men are around. They won’t look at you, acknowledge you or stick around if we two women come near. If the men are gone to the fields or away sitting talking with other men, which is what they all seem to be doing all of the time in the cities, all breaks open with the women. They come out – really OUT. It’s like night and day.So many times while traveling we have had this same thing happen. The women are chatty, curious and aggressive – to the point of being scary sometimes – but only if their men are far away. We have been pinched, poked, prodded and cajoled. We have been asked to give up our clothing, jewelry, scarves, pens and anything else that appealed and looked like something they could tell a good story about later. Luckily, we all have laughed together a lot, too, during these encounters. You have to be able to laugh – a lot – at yourself and at the situation. It is the best policy by far. But what does this mean for their intimate lives? And how, as women, do we understand and accept the fact that in EVERY family, whether villagers or city folk, there is NEVER more than one girl among the children? There are always three to four or more boys of varying ages but never more than one girl. She is often the oldest or second to oldest, too.What this tells us is that Indian women, whether Hindu or Muslim, must decide how to let their girls go. They get to keep one, only one. Older is better as she’ll be of valuable help to the mother, but after SHE is born there must be now only boys. Can you even imagine what that must feel like? I can’t even fathom it. I’m the mother of three girls and no boys. When I say that, which I do often, I get a sad, poor me kind of face from everyone. I am defective they think. How is this possible, they are wondering.Imagine killing your daughters. You get just one, remember. Do you give that first one you don’t get to keep to your powerful mother-in-law, who had to do the same with her ‘extra’ girls? Do you be brave and leave her outside, under a bush, away from your home a bit, so you won’t think about it? How can you not think about it? Ever. What about the next and the next? How many times does an Indian woman have to do this in her life? She has to live through nine months of a pregnancy then, not knowing if it is a girl or that wanted boy, go through birth just to have a fifty-percent chance of starting all over again, very soon, to try again for that boy. If there are an average of four boys in a family and one girl then she might have had to do it maybe four or five times in her life. Just don’t attend the new baby girl - leave her, nature will do the rest. Does that make the one girl that does get to survive thankful – is she burdened at a very young age with that thought?It is all too much for me sometimes. I can’t fathom it. It is because of money – the dowry. It is a burden on families to have to come up with a big pay-off for the girl to get married. Sometimes, even after that, the family is haunted by their new in-laws and their daughter’s husband to give more – the first wasn’t enough. It can drive women to suicide or worst, murder on the part of the husband or his family.I know that balance is within me. I know that everything is perfect, just the way it is. The Universe is perfect. And yet, I can’t balance this. It doesn’t compute. Sorry for my rants. I know it isn’t very ‘sexy’ but it is THE WAY in the land of the Kama Sutra. I am wondering about sex now. What is that like for Indian men and women?Love,Suzie

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Kama Sutra Positions – The One Position That Can Give You The Most Pleasurable Night

18. November 2007

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What is one Kama Sutra Position that will allow you to see your lover face to face, chest to chest, and will be able to kiss, caress and embrace freely? This Kama Sutra Position is what I called “The Pounding Congress”.This position starts with the man sitting at the edge of the bed and calling [...]

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Sexual Positions to Aid in Conception – Advice From The Kama Sutra

14. November 2007

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The act of conception has been cloaked in mystery, it seems forever. However, the ancient Indian Rishis who studied all elements of our lives came up with some sexual positions and other techniques that promote conception and pregnancy.Clearly outlined below, these sexual positions and techniques can be either followed (as an aid to conception), or [...]

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The Secrets Behind The Kama Sutra

4. November 2007

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Now when we think about The Kama Sutra, we tend to think of a book entailed several different sexual positions used to enhance overall sexual pleasure, but is all there is to it?A Guide To Relationships And Life The Kama Sutra was designed in India many centuries ago and contains information not only about sexual enhancements, [...]

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