Kama sutra written by a sage gives insight about the various positions that can be used in love making. The sage talks about sixty four positions of which modern day couples do not even use ten percent of it. Exploring this realm of your sexual life is very important failing which a dull and boring life settles in and you will not be able to do any thing else in life because of the frustration it brings in your life.

It is always good to learn together. You can opt for a Kama sutra course online and see how that can help you in your life. Use the help of your partner to learn thereby adding spice to your sexual life. When you decide on studying this you need to be dedicated. Think about how much you love each other, how much you want each other and how much you need each other. Once you let that love fill you then you will be able to try out so many of the positions specified and you can see that your marriage is spiced up. You can understand that the relationship has been deepened in intimacy.

Don’t let your inadequate sex life spoil things for your marriage. You love each other and that is why you got married. Get to know each other better through this Kama Sutra Course and you will understand the importance of love making in your life.

Bring the Book into the Bedroom

There are a few different ways that you can introduce the Kama sutra techniques into the bedroom with your partner. You can get a Kama sutra book that has illustrations or pictures, and flip through the book together and set a goal to try a number of new positions. Take turns picking out the positions that you want to try, and get busy. There are so many positions to choose from that you may even find love making lasting longer than it ever has. That is a good thing for any rocky bedroom relationship.

Not Just About Positions

Kama sutra techniques are not just about positions. It is also known for giving kissing techniques that is not always on the lips. You will find that there is great advice in a Kama sutra manual that will guide you through fellatio or cunninglius. Many of the manuals have pictures and illustrations that can help guide you as well.

You will also find that there is advice galore on sex and the art of love making in many Kama sutra books.  The advice is for both the male and the female in the relationship. In addition, will suggest which positions are best for eye contact, holding each other etc.

Local Bookstore

If you are now interested in purchasing a Kama sutra techniques book you will find that most bookstores will have one or more to choose from. If you have a large bookstore chain in your area, you are sure to find just what you are looking for there.  Be sure that you look in the relationship section of the store, and take the book home to get ready and have some fun in the bedroom again!

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A womans neck is a great place to start when you are wanting to get her in the mood quickly. You can kiss her gently on her neck and this will make her stimulated. It is important to take your time and enjoy what you are doing and most importantly do not rush it, this will only get her out of the mood and will not make for a great love making experience.

You want to use your tongue as well when kissing her because it is warm and stimulating to the touch. The side of her neck and then down her back is a place to really get her stimulated. You should also take advantage of kissing her in her thigh area because this will get her lower area warmed up before sex.

Your gentle kiss if done correctly can give her a orgasm even before sex. It is always important to know the secrets of kissing and what makes a woman have an orgasm. You should get all the information you can so that you will have the best experience that you can when trying new things.

In human relationships, one should not underestimate the important of touch and this article is all about using touch to show your partner how much you love and care for them.

Try it and you will find out how to convey your emotions and feelings in a totally different way that will enhance any relationship and is a fun and enjoyable form of foreplay.

The importance of touch

Goes back to our very roots of being in the womb, our mother’s holding us, and then childhood innocent games with parents, siblings and friends. In later life, we tend to duplicate this, if we can, with our intimate relations.

The sexual massage is one very special way to do this, and can bring not only relaxation, but a keener sense of intimacy to both partners.

Setting the mood

To begin you will need some relaxing environment. If you are going to give the massage on a bed, it must not be too soft. If it is, use the floor, but put down first a folder blanket or a duvet. You must also have ready

• Massage oil

• A large towel, a smaller towel and a small pillow

• Some relaxing music

• A few scented candles, with some scent like cinnamon which is considered to be somehow aphrodisiac.

The room should be warm, as your partner will be naked (but not at first). Light the candles, put on the music, and you are about ready.

Many techniques include massage (or masturbation) of the gentiles.

This technique does not, but recommends intercourse as the natural conclusion of the massage.

Massage technique

With your partner lying face-down (and perhaps a small pillow under her or his head, and a rolled small towel under the ankles (to elevate the foot slightly) put some oil into your hands. Never put the oil or massage cream directly on the partner’s skin as it can confuse and even ruin the mood of the massage.

Back massaging

Start with the high back, rubbing with flat hands in circles (the left hand circling counter-clockwise and the right hand clockwise). This is a relaxing stroke and you can move both lower or higher. Keep your hand well oiled until your partner’s skin (as well as your own) has stopped “drinking” the oil. As you move higher and lower with this stoke, you can now move both hands in the same direction.

As you continue, you can include the whole of the back, and how your circling strokes become the swimming stroke. These are very large a movements beginning at the small of your partner’s back and finishing at the nape of the neck. You can continue like this for some minutes, and you will give a great pleasure to your partner; who will begin to melt beneath you.

The shoulders and neck

You next work on the shoulder and neck with the flat of your thumbs and even kneading (as if you were kneading dough for bread). Continue for a few minutes.

Buttocks & Legs

Work your way down now to your partner’s buttocks. Use the kneading technique at first, and then end with small circling. Work at the cleavage of the buttocks, and on the inside of the thigh, but do not actually touch your partner’s anus or gentiles. Come as close as you can without doing so, and tease this areas with feathery strokes.

Quickly move down each leg, massaging with the kneading movement, then the circling. Now go to each foot. Apply more oil and rub and massage each part of the foot, each toe even. Place special emphasis on the sole, and use your thumbs to massage the ball of the foot and then arch.

Asking your partner to turn over, work your way up the leg to the hips. Be careful to NOT touch the genital area, but only come as close as is possible. This is like scratching a mosquito bite, but around the bite, and not directly on it.

The front of the body

Lift your partner slightly from the small of the back two or three times. Then on your partner’s abdomen, do large swimming stokes, and keep this up for at least 3 to 4 minutes. This area will ignite the sexual centers, and create a great desire for sexual union with your partner; but do not yield till you are finished giving the massage.

Continue with small circling movements on the chest or breast of your partner, and then move to the next with light pressuring movements only. Go behind your partner now and work on his or her face from behind. Do very light massage, not neglecting the lips, and eyes. Move to the sides of the forehead, and then end with the earlobes. There are great sexual centers (used also by acupressurists) there, and end with light pressure to each lobe.

You end the massage now on the whole of your partner’s body with the back of the hands, using only the tips of the fingernails in as light and long stokes as possible.

Practice and enjoy the above

Try the above and you will find a massage will add a different and enjoyable dimension to your relationship