A womans neck is a great place to start when you are wanting to get her in the mood quickly. You can kiss her gently on her neck and this will make her stimulated. It is important to take your time and enjoy what you are doing and most importantly do not rush it, this will only get her out of the mood and will not make for a great love making experience.

You want to use your tongue as well when kissing her because it is warm and stimulating to the touch. The side of her neck and then down her back is a place to really get her stimulated. You should also take advantage of kissing her in her thigh area because this will get her lower area warmed up before sex.

Your gentle kiss if done correctly can give her a orgasm even before sex. It is always important to know the secrets of kissing and what makes a woman have an orgasm. You should get all the information you can so that you will have the best experience that you can when trying new things.

The act of conception has been cloaked in mystery, it seems forever. However, the ancient Indian Rishis who studied all elements of our lives came up with some sexual positions and other techniques that promote conception and pregnancy.

Clearly outlined below, these sexual positions and techniques can be either followed (as an aid to conception), or avoided to prevent conception.

The Act of Conception

Clearly the delivery of a man’s sperm into the woman’s womb is the first condition to becoming pregnant.

However, the woman must be in or near her fertile days, the chemistry of her womb but be correct to facilitate the movement of the man’s sperm, and her mental state has to be such, that the very cells of her body are ready to the conceptual event.

Any one of the three conditions out of balance with the other (available and healthy sperm, body chemistry and mental attitude), can prevent conception.

Addressing the Body Chemistry

The woman’s body chemistry changes throughout her monthly cycle. Near, during and slightly after ovulation, her body chemistry inside the womb becomes less acidic and less hostile to the invading sperm.

In fact, as the man’s ejaculation occurs, a special protective layer (a sort of shield) forms around the sperm, and it facilitates the sperm being able to navigate through the cervical mucus…now much thinner during the woman’s fertile period.

The Woman’s Mental State

Hardly understood, a woman’s mental state determines her body’s reaction to the invading sperm.

The sperm can be welcomed or unwelcomed (to use a metaphor), but in any case, if the sexual act places the woman in a relaxed and stressless condition, her uterine contractions (in response to the freshly deposited sperm) will actually propel the sperm quickly towards the fallopian tubes where awaits a fertile ovum (or egg).

Therefore, the man should discover how to relax and calm his partner, and how to help place her state of mind in a calm and relaxed condition.

The Best Sexual Position for Conception

Called by various names by the Indians in the Kama Sutra, by the Arabs in the Perfumed Garden, the sexual position that is most suited to aid conception is commonly known as the “riding high – missionary variant”. Many ancients called it the Crab position.

Actually, it is technically known as the coital alignment position, and is a variant of the people in the West call the ‘missionary position’ The Crab position however is not only suited to aid conception, but during the sexual act its employment will highly stimulate the clitoris, and often cause a massive clitoral orgasm.

As the sperm is ejaculated into the woman’s womb, the orgasm and strong contraction will actually propel the sperm towards the fallopian tubes.

To do the Crab position, the man lies on top, but above the woman with her legs bent back at the knees, and pulled towards her breast. A small pillow (not too big) should also be placed under the woman’s buttocks.

As the man penetrates her, he, glides forward along her body, with the root of his penis (that part closest to the body) stimulating the woman’s clitoris.

No thrusting should occur, but the man and woman will alternately apply pressure to each other’s pelvic regions A circular motion (often called ‘bump and grind’) can also be applied, and in a short while the woman should arrive at a great and profound orgasm. The man should try to finish as near to that event as possible.

The couple staying in this position after ejaculation will also facilitate the sperm being pooled nearer towards its goal. The chances of becoming pregnant in this position (with the other conditions present), are very high.

Kama sutra has become incredibly popular of the past few years. Many people are taking to this ancient text as a way of improving the amount of excitement in the bedroom. There are many sexual positions that are talked about in The Kama Sutra, but only a certain few seem to create enormous amounts of pleasure.

The Dog

The dog was designed as a way of increasing pleasure by the man being behind the woman in a position that is unbelievably more pleasurable for the woman than for the man.

It has become one of the most used Kama Sutra positions in the world due to its ease of use. In fact it has become common practice for sexual partners to use this position more often than any other. If you are planning on trying something new and you haven’t tried the dog, then you and your partner are in for a treat.

The Lotus

The lotus is described as when the man is sitting cross-legged with the woman on top. This again is certainly a very popular position and was designed in one of the first Kama Sutra’s back many centuries ago. Most people like to switch from this position into another. There are many positions to go to from The Lotus, including; the right angle(man standing with the woman laying on her back), the clip(man lies down and the woman leans back on her knees) and many others.

I’m sure that you have done the lotus on numerous encounters, which you probably don’t remember as it is a position that most people switch in between during intercourse.

The Visitor

The Visitor is probably the most intimate of sexual positions outlined in The Kama Sutra. It is when both the man and woman are standing and in the past it’s likely you have been in this position before. Because the two of you are standing, most of the eroticism is taken out of the mood and replaced with a feeling of total connection.

If you and your partner are deeply in love, the visitor is able to magnify that love tenfold. Worth giving a go next time.

The Kama Sutra was firstly designed not as a guide to sex, but as a guide to total relationship building. Most people tend to forget this and focus more on the physical side of this ancient text. One of the main teachings in the Kama Sutra discusses how pleasure can only be maximized in the bedroom if you and your partner share a strong sense of connection. Focus on your relationship and it will reflect in the bedroom.

In human relationships, one should not underestimate the important of touch and this article is all about using touch to show your partner how much you love and care for them.

Try it and you will find out how to convey your emotions and feelings in a totally different way that will enhance any relationship and is a fun and enjoyable form of foreplay.

The importance of touch

Goes back to our very roots of being in the womb, our mother’s holding us, and then childhood innocent games with parents, siblings and friends. In later life, we tend to duplicate this, if we can, with our intimate relations.

The sexual massage is one very special way to do this, and can bring not only relaxation, but a keener sense of intimacy to both partners.

Setting the mood

To begin you will need some relaxing environment. If you are going to give the massage on a bed, it must not be too soft. If it is, use the floor, but put down first a folder blanket or a duvet. You must also have ready

• Massage oil

• A large towel, a smaller towel and a small pillow

• Some relaxing music

• A few scented candles, with some scent like cinnamon which is considered to be somehow aphrodisiac.

The room should be warm, as your partner will be naked (but not at first). Light the candles, put on the music, and you are about ready.

Many techniques include massage (or masturbation) of the gentiles.

This technique does not, but recommends intercourse as the natural conclusion of the massage.

Massage technique

With your partner lying face-down (and perhaps a small pillow under her or his head, and a rolled small towel under the ankles (to elevate the foot slightly) put some oil into your hands. Never put the oil or massage cream directly on the partner’s skin as it can confuse and even ruin the mood of the massage.

Back massaging

Start with the high back, rubbing with flat hands in circles (the left hand circling counter-clockwise and the right hand clockwise). This is a relaxing stroke and you can move both lower or higher. Keep your hand well oiled until your partner’s skin (as well as your own) has stopped “drinking” the oil. As you move higher and lower with this stoke, you can now move both hands in the same direction.

As you continue, you can include the whole of the back, and how your circling strokes become the swimming stroke. These are very large a movements beginning at the small of your partner’s back and finishing at the nape of the neck. You can continue like this for some minutes, and you will give a great pleasure to your partner; who will begin to melt beneath you.

The shoulders and neck

You next work on the shoulder and neck with the flat of your thumbs and even kneading (as if you were kneading dough for bread). Continue for a few minutes.

Buttocks & Legs

Work your way down now to your partner’s buttocks. Use the kneading technique at first, and then end with small circling. Work at the cleavage of the buttocks, and on the inside of the thigh, but do not actually touch your partner’s anus or gentiles. Come as close as you can without doing so, and tease this areas with feathery strokes.

Quickly move down each leg, massaging with the kneading movement, then the circling. Now go to each foot. Apply more oil and rub and massage each part of the foot, each toe even. Place special emphasis on the sole, and use your thumbs to massage the ball of the foot and then arch.

Asking your partner to turn over, work your way up the leg to the hips. Be careful to NOT touch the genital area, but only come as close as is possible. This is like scratching a mosquito bite, but around the bite, and not directly on it.

The front of the body

Lift your partner slightly from the small of the back two or three times. Then on your partner’s abdomen, do large swimming stokes, and keep this up for at least 3 to 4 minutes. This area will ignite the sexual centers, and create a great desire for sexual union with your partner; but do not yield till you are finished giving the massage.

Continue with small circling movements on the chest or breast of your partner, and then move to the next with light pressuring movements only. Go behind your partner now and work on his or her face from behind. Do very light massage, not neglecting the lips, and eyes. Move to the sides of the forehead, and then end with the earlobes. There are great sexual centers (used also by acupressurists) there, and end with light pressure to each lobe.

You end the massage now on the whole of your partner’s body with the back of the hands, using only the tips of the fingernails in as light and long stokes as possible.

Practice and enjoy the above

Try the above and you will find a massage will add a different and enjoyable dimension to your relationship