The Kama Sutra of Romance – Endless Positions of Love!

So, do you think of romance when you hear the term "Kama Sutra?" Some people think of something a little bit more physical, but believe it or not, there are just as many different positions of romance as there are for intercourse.

For those of you who don’t know, the Kama Sutra is an ancient text of dozens of sexual positions for loving couples. The Kama Sutra is extremely popular and sought after by lovers who want to add more excitement to their love lives.

But adding real, old-fashioned love to your relationship is one of the best ways possible to improve your sexual and mental satisfaction . . . and there are endless ways to bring that love into your life. More ways, in fact, than there are sexual positions in the Kama Sutra!

So the Kama Sutra of Romance, as we will call it, is full of more "positions" to improve your love life than you’ll ever find in any sex book. And I guarantee you that the positions you’ll discover in the Kama Sutra of Romance will bring much more fulfilling and enduring changes to your love, too.

So, how do you get your hands on a copy of the Kama Sutra of Romance and add an endless number of new romantic positions to your love life? Well, believe it or not, the Kama Sutra or Romance can be yours for free . . . because it’s up to you to write it!

That’s right: just like every love is unique, so are the different romantic positions that will add new life to your relationship. From romantic dates to honeymoon ideas to pet names, there are endless possibilities . . . and sometimes, options that are perfect for one love are poison to another.

So as you write your own Kama Sutra of Romance, remember that the romantic positions that will work for your love aren’t the same as anyone else’s. Just like the original Kama Sutra, you should never feel guilty about discovering the romantic positions that work best for you and implement them in your love!

And always remember that just because a love relationship doesn’t have any physical aspects early on, that doesn’t mean that physical attraction and sexual openness can’t develop later. The best love is the kind that is nurtured slowly, and the more patient you are, the more likely it is that your relationship will become fulfilling for both partners. Have patience, be willing to try new things, and respect your lover’s opinions, and your sexual relationship will develop, as well.

When you look at the most durable, long-lasting and fulfillinf romantic relationships in the world, you’ll notice that they all have one thing in common: they were developed slowly, over a long period of time, and the people involved in them were paient. Patience is the common characteristic of every successful relationship, and it’s really the secret key to uncovering your own Kama Sutra of Romance . . . and discovering a treasure trove of variety in your romantic life.

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Why Kamasutra Is Still Important For Modern Youth?

It can be rightfully said that no other work on sex and its correlate is as extensive as the Kamasutra of ancient India. The Kamasutra has been authored by an obscure Indian guru, named Vatsyayana Mallagana as far back as the fourth century. However, nothing else is known about this guru except that he is the author of the Kamasutra. This is a very clear example of how a writer’s work can supersede the writer himself. The Kamasutra is extensively famous today, even in the advanced western world. Life has changed drastically from those times; but the Kamasutra remains perennially fresh. When you read the seven books of the Kamasutra, you get the impression as though it were written just yesterday keeping the modern youth in mind.

The Kamasutra is a journey of the life of a man through different sexual stages. It beings with boyhood when the first pubertal changes begin to surface in the body of the man right up to old age when the man loses his sexual virility. This range of a man’s entire sexual life is divided into seven stages, and hence there are seven books.

In the first book, Vatsyayana tells how a boy first begins to notice the changes in his own body. This makes him more aware of the world around him, and how he can relate to the correlation between himself and the universe. Not only is this a time of sexual advancement, there is also a social idea ingrained in the boy’s mind at this time. This is generally the stage when the boy decides what his place in society is. Just as the boy becomes more in harmony with society, he also develops a friendlier bond with his own body. He begins to understand how his body, especially the genitals, reacts to various changes around him. Sexual desires make their presence felt at this stage, and the boy learns to satiate himself by masturbation. Different masturbatory techniques for men are described in this book.

The second book is about sexual blooming of the boy into a young man. The young man learns what sex is all about, and goes into the world to seek his satisfaction. Different men get themselves satisfied in different manners. The very extensive section in this book pertaining to sexual positions is what the Kamasuutra is most remembered for even today. The book discusses at length how different sexual positions affect the mental and biological state of a man’s being. The relative merits and demerits of the positions are discussed at length.

Once this stage is past, the young man strives to gain a wife for himself. This is no easy task either, as he will need to woo the wife and perhaps have to pit himself with several competitors. Once he is victorious, he has the right to his wife, and nobody else can lay a claim on her. He has a moral right to fight anybody who trespasses the decency of his wife. This book also tells how a man and his wife can enjoy sexual bliss. It tells about how a woman must help her husband masturbate if he so desires.

The entire Kamasutra is written from the point of view of a man. However, in book four, Vatsyayana directly addresses women. He tells them of the proper mode of conduct in a marriage, of how to remain faithful and dutiful to their husbands and how to protect their modesties from other men. The point that a wife must provide her husband with good sex, and get good sex in return from him, is also emphasized.

The fifth book lays bare the deviant nature in all men as they approach middle age. This is the time when the wife no longer holds the same attraction, and men try to hunt for other men’s wives. Though this is immoral, the Kamasutra maintains that this is also inevitable. So methods of luring other men’s wives are present in this book of the Kamasutra. The Kamasutra goes as far as saying that only if there is extra-marital sex will there be peace within a marriage.

The sixth book makes man seem more adventurous, primarily because of his diminishing sexual drive. This is the time when the man has earned enough money, and he doesn’t mind squandering a bit of it on carnal pleasures. Man would visit prostitutes and such other women in order to get his pleasures.

In the seventh and the last book, the stage of man after he has lost his sex drive is mentioned. This is when man returns fully to his wife, and engrosses himself in spiritual pursuits. In order to keep his body in good health, he may divert to Ayurveda and Yoga and make the best use of his remaining years on earth.

So this is what the Kamasutra is all about. Naturally, people the world over think that the Kamasutra is only a book about sexual positions, though this is as far from the truth as it can be possible. The Kamasutra is a whole treatise on sex.

In today’s world, the basic argument against the Kamasutra – and a very justified one at that – is that it objectifies women. The entire work treats women as nothing more than sex toys for the male. This goes very much against the teaching of almost all cultures of the world. Also, despite its very blatant description of all things sexual, the very popular oral sex has been uncannily kept out. There is no mention – supporting or contradictory – of oral sex at all.

But the book on sexual positions in the Kamasutra is still a very valuable work. This is the inspiration for several of the cave sculptures of India, and they are also quite universal in their approach. Couples can derive much pleasure by trying out the different postures mentioned here.

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Sexual Healing and Tantra

The term "healing" conjures up images of fixing something that is viewed as broken or unhealthy. Sexual healing would be needed to heal a physical illness or to correct behavior that is sexually dysfunctional or deviant. Pedophilia, sex addiction, impotence, and frigidity are some examples of conditions for which sexual healing through the aid of a medical or mental health professional would be most appropriate.

Tantra is not a method of sexual healing so much as it is a useful tool for bringing about a change of negative or uncomfortable attitudes towards sexuality and becoming more open, relaxed and sexually whole. Tantric practices, among many other things, help to dispel the most common myths and misconceptions about sexuality to establish an intelligent, rational setting for a natural, healthy, more enjoyable sex life. Tantric practices are useful in enhancing sensitivity to simple sensual pleasures, realigning unbalanced energies, and liberating us from unhealthy cultural beliefs regarding sex and sexual pleasure.

Sensual Enhancement
A major part of tantric practice is to pay close attention to what we see, hear, smell, feel, and taste without analysis or judgment. The more focused attention given to the senses and sensual stimuli, the more sensitive they become, and it takes less to arouse them. Because sex is a highly sensual activity, the enhancement of all sensual perceptions has a direct positive effect on libido and the ability to sustain sexual excitement. More pleasure is enjoyed from less and less effort, and without overindulgence. Tantra helps to take us back to a time when a simple touch brought a rush of warm feelings of joy and ecstasy, and this way, the pleasure of touch is greatly extended far beyond the mere moment of physical orgasm.

Energy Balance
Within every one of us are differing energies. Among them are Shiva, the masculine, calm and dynamic; and Shakti, the feminine, earthy, creative, and intuitive. When these internal polarities are balanced and integrated, we are able to take full advantage of the qualities of both such as clarity and intuitiveness, peace, and power. The result is a dynamic whole, the interplay of yin and yang, each capable of giving and receiving (sharing equally) pleasure with a partner. Encounters with others, both sexual and nonsexual feel more egalitarian when there is the lack of competition and constant worry and fear about unfair advantage. Fear and worry block the flow of energies, particular the energies needed for relaxation and fulfillment. Tantric relationships generally promote more cooperation and freedom to experience the joys of sexual playfulness.

Cultural beliefs
Sexuality is a natural and healthy part of life. Without it, life would cease to exist. Tantra is a discipline that originated in India and the east, where sexuality has at times been less repressed than in the west. The western current shame-based attitudes towards sexuality have led to the abuse of sex so much that it is exploited to manipulate and to sell virtually any and every product ever marketed. What a confusing concept! Tantra takes us away from the falsity that sex is nasty, evil, disgusting, or sinful. In fact, sex is considered sacred because it is associated with the supreme life force. When viewed in a way that is perfectly logical and rational, the possibility of a happy healthy sex life without being doomed to the depths of hellfire becomes all so real. Tantra empowers us to view sexuality in a way like any other, without negative or positive connotations, and devoid of guilt, disgust, and shame.

Equally damaging is the idea that only skinny people are sexy, or that there is any such physical standard requirement that must be met in order to be sexually desirable or to be permitted to enjoy the basic and normal joys of the body. All this is as if sexual satisfaction is a scarce commodity, to be enjoyed only by a select few. This all-pervasive fallacy is the root of many an eating disorder, and self esteem issue. When we consider that a majority of Americans are overweight, we see the widespread result of poor sexual relations and demeaning sexual attitudes. Tantra practitioners dismiss such beauty standards as a form of discrimination, which is discouraged, and a problem of separation. The tantric ideal is that people are all connected, all beautiful, and all divine. Therefore, any sort of physical requirement is absolutely absurd. Tantric practices require that we befriend, love, care for, and respect the body as a divine gift. To be sexy is a state of mind–being open, connected, and receptive to loving touch, no matter what weight, height, age, color, or shape.

Conclusion
Sex and sexuality are but a very small part of Tantra. However, almost all exposure to tantra by westerners derives from misrepresentations and misunderstandings of the practice through some well-meaning so-called healers and some not so well meaning profiteers. Most often they make easy money by claiming that tantra is limited to sacred sex and a neurotic quest to live out bodily passions. This hyperbolic emphasis on sex positions, prolonged orgasms, sexual healing, controlling ejaculation, etc. simply preys upon the western aversion to sexuality, the unhealthy western fascination with sex and everything sexy, or both and has very little to do with authentic tantra. Tantra is actually a very simple, deep, subtle spiritual practice in which adherents learn to use sensuality, creative energies, and breath to become completely present to reality, with an open heart, in order to simultaneously experience a greatly expanded state of love-based consciousness.

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Tantra Sacred Loving Step by Step

Tantra is a spiritual tradition that originated in India some 4,000 years ago. It is a way of life that celebrates and strives for the union of body, mind, heart and soul. Tantra is a form of yoga. Yoga means union. The ultimate purpose of Tantra is the union of lovers, and ultimately union with the Divine. In the Tantric tradition, sexuality and spirituality are joined. Lovers actually invite God into their bed!

Many cultures have a variation of this challenging and delightful practice, the Taoists in China and the Cheyenne in North America. There are differences in these practices, but all forms of sacred sexuality share the intentional cultivation and use of sexual energy for spiritual growth, healing, creativity and enhanced pleasure.

The practices of Tantra were first introduced to the west in the 1800s, but a Tantric revival in the ashrams of India during the late 1960s has led to a gradual popularization of these practices in Europe and North America. Recent testimonials by celebrity musicians and movie stars like Sting and Woody Harrelson have promoted it and Tantra is becoming the sexual learning of choice for those who want to have it all: a passionate sex life, a healthy body, and spiritual growth.

Tantric lovemaking involves breathing exercises, muscle contraction exercises, sound, visualization, affirmations, creating a sacred loving space and other ceremonial practices, meditation, sensual massage, and sexual play. In order to build a high sexual energy charge and to move into ecstatic states of divine connection Tantric lovers extend lovemaking over several hours, experiencing extraordinary levels of pleasure along the way.

Part of the delight of Tantra is that you can continue to learn and advance throughout years of practice; it is never-ending in its potential for growth. At the same time, it is a practice that yields immediate results. You can experience a difference in your lovemaking right now if you follow these nine simple steps.

Tantric Loving Step by Step

1. Intention

Regular lovemaking has a goal, orgasm. If you both come at the same instant, many believe this is as good as it gets. However, this approach often results in a great deal of frustration and performance anxiety. With Tantric sacred loving there is no goal, but there is a purpose, union. Your intention is to merge with your lover in all aspects, body, mind, heart and soul, not just body. You can help this along by looking at your lover differently, by seeing your partner as a god or goddess, as a living expression of the divine. Look for the glory, the beauty and the wonder in your playmate and in yourself and let that shine.

2. Creating a Sacred Loving Space

Set the mood; transform any ordinary space, bedroom, living room, etc., into a sacred space. It takes only a few minutes and costs little or nothing. The important thing is your intention, not the specific items you use. First, clean the room; vacuum, dust, and put away any clutter lying about. In the evening dim the lights and use lots of candles. Bring in plants or fresh cut flowers. A bowl of fruit is very sensual. You may wish to have a bottle of wine to share. Bring special objects that have emotional importance for into the room. Make up a lover’s bed using your finest clean linens (silk is exquisite) and have lots of pillows handy.

When you have finished creating the space, take a few moments to purify it energetically. That means consciously sending away negative or fearful thoughts and feelings, and inviting in those that are joyous, passionate and safe. Create your own rituals with sweet grass, incense, and musical instruments.

3. The Lover’s Purifying Bath

Cleanse each other in preparation for your joyous union. Wash away the dirt and cares of the world. A hot bath with essential oils and bath salts is perfect, especially if you can both fit into the tub at the same time. A shower is the next best thing, but perfectly acceptable. The essential thing is to be squeaky clean. After all you will be eating off that skin! Make the bath a slow, luxurious affair giving complete attention to your lover. Wash and dry each other with playful abandon. Men shave or trim facial hair and apply scent. Women apply their best perfumes and lotions. Sensually prepare your bodies for the delights ahead.

4. Honor, Respect and Permission

Trust, surrender and opening your heart are essential if you want to reach the heights of bliss. It is not just technique that will get you there. You must join together as loving equals on the sexual journey.

Men, think of the yoni (vagina) as a potential opening, don’t ever take your lady for granted! Speak softly how much you adore, love and respect her as you gently blow on her ears and nibble on her ear lobes. Let her know that you think of her constantly and how strong your desire is to make love with (not to) her. Also, let her know that you invite her to awaken sexually and to express her sexuality fully. Let her know that you are NOT caught in that tired old cultural conditioning that still insists “good girls” do not enjoy sex, the Madonna/Whore split. Make her believe you when you tell her that you know she can be all she wants to be: a successful career woman, a respectful daughter, a faithful wife, a caring mother, a passionate lover and a sincere spiritual seeker all at the same time. Tell her how beautiful she is, how wonderful she smells, and all the things you appreciate most about her. Finally, ask permission to be her passionate Tantric lover.

Ladies, let your man know that he is safe! He may act macho and tough, showing little emotion, but inside most men are afraid of emotional intimacy. The tougher a man acts the greater this fear of trusting and surrendering will be. Let him know that you admire his strength, but that it also turns you on when he allows himself to be vulnerable by showing his feelings. Tell him how handsome he is and how talented. Mention all the things you like most about him. Tell him why you love him so deeply. Tell him how much you think about him when he is away, and how you have fantasies about making love with him and touching him when he returns. Make him believe that you really want him sexually. Finally, ask permission to be his passionate Tantric lover.

5. Foreplay

Two simple ways to tune into each other are harmonizing your breathing and gazing deeply into each other’s eyes. By matching your breathing rhythms and making soulful eye contact you connect emotionally and energetically as well as physically. Begin to explore each other’s bodies with wonder, lust and playfulness.

Remember, in Tantric sacred loving there is no goal. You are not trying to get somewhere. Each touch is complete in and of itself. Once you master how to work with your sexual energy both lovers will discover they can have orgasms just by touching fingers together, or looking into each other’s eyes across a crowded room! So men are not in a hurry to get at the woman’s breasts or into her yoni. When touching her body, start at the extremities, fingers and toes, and work in toward the hot spots. Go slowly! Generally men enjoy having their genitals touched at any time, but women usually only enjoy having their breasts and genitals touched after they are already sexually excited from other touching, stimulating conversation, or emotional connection. Make sure the woman is well lubricated before any attempt at intercourse. If possible, help her to have a clitoral orgasm before moving on to intercourse.

6. Intercourse

Five to fifteen minutes of lovemaking is usually not satisfying for women. Men can learn to delay ejaculation so that lovemaking can be extended for hours. A man can delay ejaculation for weeks or months at a time, not just during one lovemaking session. A man who masters his ejaculation response can separate orgasm from ejaculation and become a multi-orgasmic-man! Such a man can last long enough in lovemaking so that his female partner will have enough time to also have multiple orgasms.

Although Tantric loving lasts several hours, this does not mean you are having active intercourse during that entire time. Intercourse is interspersed with touching, oral play, quietly holding each other, dancing, massage, etc. It is a good idea for a man to allow his erection to subside every 30-45 minutes to exchange the blood supply and recharge his oxygen and hormone levels in the lingam (penis).

7. Moving Your Energy: The Passion Pump

Riding the wave of bliss happens when the lovers become totally aroused sexually, maintaining that arousal for a period of time. They build up intense hot sexual energy. For the man, if this energy has nowhere else to go, there will be such great pressure in the prostate, that it will go into involuntary spasm and ejaculation will end the lovemaking. However, with a combination of breathing, relaxation, and muscle contraction exercises both men and women can learn to circulate sexual energy through their own and their lover’s body. Ultimately the ego boundaries disappear and the lovers become one in ecstatic union.

The muscle contraction exercise is very simple. If you were urinating and stopped the flow of urine in mid-stream you would be contracting exactly the right muscles in exactly the right way. This squeezing and relaxing of muscles around your genitals is called the PC Pump. It’s the first and most important exercise in learning to circulate your sexual energy.

At the peak of sexual arousal, either during intercourse or manual/oral stimulation stop your normal lovemaking movements and focus on moving the sexual energy that’s pulsing in your genitals. Move it up and through your body. Use slow, deep abdominal breathing to keep your body relaxed. Add the PC pumping action and visualize moving energy up your body in a ball of fire or a wave of light or a current of electricity. Through your eyes, your hands, your genitals pass this powerful force on to your lover. At first, this may seem difficult because we are not accustomed to paying attention to our internal energy. With practice, you will be able to recognize and direct it.

8. Afterplay

Regular lovemaking usually ends (often abruptly) when the man ejaculates, but Tantric sacred loving often ends while the lovers still have desire. This assumes the man has some mastery over his ejaculation response so that ending lovemaking is a conscious choice, sometimes including ejaculation, sometimes not. With Tantric loving you wind down your lovemaking with slow caresses, words of endearment and honoring each other with food and drink.

9. Sharing Wine, Food and Other Sensual Pleasures

The sharing of good food, wine and other intoxicants, sensual massage, dressing up in costumes and playing sexual games are part of the ancient Tantric tradition. While Tantra is serious, it need not be heavy. Lighten up; be playful, lusty and daring!

Tantra lovers know that they are personally responsible for their own sexual fulfillment and their own spiritual progress. This may be especially important for men. Many men experience a great deal of performance anxiety. But even the greatest, most sensitive, highly skilled Tantric lover cannot make a woman have orgasms. She must be able to go to that place in herself that is orgasmic. Sexual/spiritual ecstasy has little to do with control. It requires trust, surrender and letting go. Both lovers must learn to do this. If there is some psychological work to do before you will allow yourself to open in this way, then get on with it! In the meantime, please each other with the preparation, serving and consumption of fine food and drink. Lavish each other with touching in sensual massage. Dress up (and down) for each other. Take on different personalities with different costumes; wear masks. Play and laugh together. Celebrate your spirit through your sexuality. Open your heart. Let your lover in and your love out!

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Kama Sutra India

The Kama Sutra is a group of Indian texts written by a scholar named Vatsyayana Mallanaga. The term Kama Sutra is derived from two Sanskrit words Kama and Sutra which means desire and guide respectively; when translated literally, Kama Sutra means a Treatise on Pleasure.

As known by the masses, the Indian Kama Sutra is a classic text used as a guide to love making and also as a reflection of the social traditions of India. A lot of people who have read or have heard about the Kama Sutra simply see the book as a manual on unconventional sexual positions; however, the Indian Kama Sutra is viewed by scholars as a classic text with historical importance. The book is about living, with texts on how to find a partner, how to maintain a marriage, and how to perform sexual intercourse.

Man has three chief goals in life, according to the Indian Kama Sutra. These goals are duty and responsibility for one’s actions or Dharma; the acquisition of power through wealth and politics or Arta; and pleasure or Kama.

The book has several sections that give advice on how to live one’s life. The initial chapters of the book discuss man’s three main priorities, how to acquire knowledge, the behavior of a townsman brought up with good breeding and many other items. The second section details the sexual positions and techniques. This is only one small part of the book; however this section focused on the sexual positions has given the book its popularity in the Western world. The succeeding sections discuss such topics as how to acquire a wife, the duty of a wife, the behavior of men and women, courtesans, and how to attract others by improving one’s physical attractiveness.

There are originally just eight positions detailed on the book, and eight variations per position, making a total of sixty four positions in all. There are several categories on the art of love making as detailed in the Indian Kama Sutra written by Vatsyayana. These categories are the sitting positions, the standing positions, the rear-entry positions, the woman on top positions, and the man on top positions.

People who choose to read the Indian version of Kama Sutra should read the book as a whole and try to apply the advice and teachings discussed in the book to real life. It should also be kept in mind that the book is not merely a guide on how to perform sex, but as a guide on how to live one’s life better and to establish better relationships with the people around him.

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Kama Sutra Book

The Kama Sutra Book is written by Vatsyayana which consisted of seven sections further divided into thirty-six chapters. We will discuss each of these sections to glean the details of what Vatsyayana was trying to convey in the Kama Sutra and the importance he placed on specific subjects. This book is nowadays the most famous and well known book.

The first section of the Kama Sutra Book consisted of five chapters explaining the contents of the manuscript, the three major aims and priorities of life according to the Hindu belief system of the day, the acquisition of knowledge, suitable conduct for the well-bred townsman and various reflections on intermediaries who assist the lover in his enterprises.

The second section of the Kama Sutra Book consisted of ten chapters on the stimulation of desire, various forms of embraces, caressing and kisses, marking a partner with the use of the finger nails, biting and marking a partner using the teeth, on positions of copulation, explanations of sexual practices such as slapping with the hand and moaning that accompanied the practice, evidence of virile behavior in women, superior coitus and oral sex practices, along with preludes and conclusions to the game of love. There are 64 types of sexual acts described in this section which has become the part of the Kama Sutra for which the book is most widely known.

Section three of the Kama Sutra Book consists of five chapters on the forms of marriage, how to relax and obtain the girl, how to manage alone when a suitable wife cannot be found and the union by marriage.

Section four consists of counsel to the various types of wives a Hindu gentleman may have had. There are two chapters dealing with the conduct of the wives. The section of the Kama Sutra Book yields advice to the solitary wife in how she should conduct herself. This section of the Kama Sutra also explained the conduct of the chief wife and other wives in a household with multiple wives and concubines.

This section of the Kama Sutra Book consisted of six chapters on behavior of women and men. It included advice on the methods of seducing another mans wife, including encounters for getting acquainted, examination of sentiments, the tasks and advantages of go-betweens, the king’s pleasures such as his harem and ways the brave could circumvent security measures and enjoy those pleasures themselves, as well as the proper behavior of a Hindu gentleman in the gynoecium’s or women’s apartments.

Section Six of the Kama Sutra consisted of six chapters on making the best use of the advice of the assistants on choosing lovers, the search for a steady lover, the courtesans skill set and ways of making money, how best to renew friendship with a former lover, creating occasional profits and dealing with profits and losses associated with being a courtesan.

The two chapters of section seven of the Kama Sutra deals mainly with thoughts on improving physical attractiveness to others and arousing a weakened or failing sexual power.

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The Five Basic Kama Sutra Poses

In Khajuraho deep in the north-central section of India, you’ll find the Lakshman temples. These are unique in the world for their large assortment of sexually explicit sculptures; all along the walls and pillars of their structures, stylized figures from the Jain and Hindu pantheon engage in every imaginable variety of sex acts, alone and with one another. They have a peculiar and striking beauty.

These figures were most likely inspired by the Kama Sutra; many of their poses reflect Kama Sutra descriptions exactly. And while many of them are very athletic indeed, the basic positions and many variations are actually quite simple.

The first two Kama Sutra poses are designed around woman on top/man on back and man on top/woman on back sexual positions. Woman on top is the first listed position in the Sutra, which is interesting; this could be because this position is the best for bringing a woman to orgasm and encourages a focus on the female, a hallmark of Indian philosophy. These positions are the most likely ones to satisfy, as the man and woman can gaze into each other’s eyes during sex, a very important part of Kama Sutra.

The next Kama Sutra pose is man and woman on side facing one another. While this position allows partners to look at one another during sex, there is a disadvantage – men who are small may not be able to effectively penetrate the woman. It’s also not a good position for people with back problems or weight issues. Still, this pose is a great change from the first two. It is an excellent position for preventing premature ejaculation.

The fourth Kana Sutra pose is woman with her back to the man; this can be either lying or on hands and knees. This is probably the best pose for smaller men, as it allows very easy access to the woman, but it eliminates the ability of partners to look at one another, making it harder to focus on one another.

The fifth and final basic pose is man and woman sitting, facing one another. This is a fairly athletic Kama Sutra pose, and probably not a great one for people who are overweight. But for those who can manage it, this is probably the very best pose for reaching orgasmic nirvana. The woman is stimulated to perfection, and can often carry the man with her into that wonderful floating feeling.

Your best bet is to try all five basic positions to see what works well for you. Eliminate the ones that seem uncomfortable or awkward; it’s not worth trying to focus around discomfort. The rest are there for you to enjoy.

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Kama Sutra Online

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian text detailing love and sex as both a joyful experience and a spiritual one. Though it was written nearly two thousand years ago, with parts of it being even older, it is finding new life today in the new media technologies. You can find fantastic guides to the Kama Sutra online.

Finding the Kama Sutra on the World Wide Web

In order to study the Kama Sutra, you must have access to it and to supporting documents. Start with Bibliomania and other online library outlets, where the full text of the Kama Sutra can be found. This is not an ideal solution, as online text files do not include the rich collections of pictures you can find in most print editions of the Kama Sutra, but it will get you started on the study.

Follow this by looking for Kama Sutra online study guides. There are easily dozens of quality texts and interactive books that give you all the information you need about the kama sutra and how you can apply it to your life.

Be sure to check Google Images for Kama Sutra. While some of the images are just plain pornographic exploitation, you will often find very good quality charts and graphics that will give you the visual instruction on Kama Sutra that digital texts do not.

What Not To Use for Online Kama Sutra Study

Unfortunately, like anything dealing with sex and pleasure, the Kama Sutra has been exploited by those who do not understand it. It is not just about sex; the Kama Sutra is, rather, about a way of life, a way you can use sex on a deep emotional and spiritual level to bring you to that nirvanic sense of orgasm on a daily basis. It is also about the way men and women should deal with one another prior to sex, basically how to court one another.

There are a number of online outlets and print publications that take advantage of the notoriety of the Kama Sutra to sell their own products. For instance, Cosmo Magazine has a guide to Kama Sutra that is, frankly, just a collection of sex positions. When you study Kama Sutra online, avoid this sort of material. Gravitate, instead, toward quality materials that focus on channeling sexual energy to enhance your and your partner’s lives.

Remember, Kama Sutra is a way of life, not a one-night stand. Treat it with respect, and you will be generously rewarded.

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Kama Sutra Poses

In Khajuraho deep in the north-central section of India, you’ll find the Lakshman temples. These are unique in the world for their large assortment of sexually explicit sculptures; all along the walls and pillars of their structures, stylized figures from the Jain and Hindu pantheon engage in every imaginable variety of sex acts, alone and with one another. They have a peculiar and striking beauty.

These figures were most likely inspired by the Kama Sutra; many of their poses reflect Kama Sutra descriptions exactly. And while many of them are very athletic indeed, the basic positions and many variations are actually quite simple.

The first two Kama Sutra poses are designed around woman on top/man on back and man on top/woman on back sexual positions. Woman on top is the first listed position in the Sutra, which is interesting; this could be because this position is the best for bringing a woman to orgasm and encourages a focus on the female, a hallmark of Indian philosophy. These positions are the most likely ones to satisfy, as the man and woman can gaze into each other’s eyes during sex, a very important part of Kama Sutra.

The next Kama Sutra pose is man and woman on side facing one another. While this position allows partners to look at one another during sex, there is a disadvantage – men who are small may not be able to effectively penetrate the woman. It’s also not a good position for people with back problems or weight issues. Still, this pose is a great change from the first two. It is an excellent position for preventing premature ejaculation.

The fourth Kana Sutra pose is woman with her back to the man; this can be either lying or on hands and knees. This is probably the best pose for smaller men, as it allows very easy access to the woman, but it eliminates the ability of partners to look at one another, making it harder to focus on one another.

The fifth and final basic pose is man and woman sitting, facing one another. This is a fairly athletic Kama Sutra pose, and probably not a great one for people who are overweight. But for those who can manage it, this is probably the very best pose for reaching orgasmic nirvana. The woman is stimulated to perfection, and can often carry the man with her into that wonderful floating feeling.

Your best bet is to try all five basic positions to see what works well for you. Eliminate the ones that seem uncomfortable or awkward; it’s not worth trying to focus around discomfort. The rest are there for you to enjoy.

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Kama Sutra History

When we think of the Kama Sutra history, we automatically start to think of different sexual positions, commonly seen in books on tantra.

Kama Sutra History is a very interesting and exciting knowledge to know about. The ancient Sanskrit text of the Kamasutram, more commonly known in western culture as the Kama Sutra, was originally written by Mallanaga Vatsyayana and is believed to be a master work on the ways of Love in all its forms. The Kama Sutra history is just one, though the most notable, of a larger collection of ancient Indian texts known as the Kama Shastra or Discipline of Kama. These texts were originally of a religious nature and common theology holds that the collection was handed down to mankind by Shiva’s doorkeeper, Nandi the sacred bull, after hearing the god, Shiva and Parvati, his wife having relations. The session so inspired the sacred bull to make utterance which was later recorded and passed down to the mankind for their benefit. It is believed that the present form of the Kama Sutra is a compendium that was gathered at some point in the second century CE.

Now The Kama Sutra was not just designed as a guide to better sex, but as a way to bring two people together closer than ever before. The idea behind The Kama Sutra history, best describes some of the modern teachings about how to increase the amount of love and connection between you and your partner.

Etymologically speaking, according to the Kama Sutra history, Kama Sutra can be broken down into two Sanskrit words; the first being Kama, which is a reference to the Hindu god of Love, using the same name. In common language, it conveyed the ideas of desire, wish, intention, pleasure and love, especially in a sexual connotation. In chapter two of Richard Barton’s translation of the text, Kama is translated as "the enjoyment of appropriate objects by the five senses of hearing, feeling, seeing, tasting and smelling, assisted by the mind together with the soul. The ingredient in this is a peculiar contact between the organ of sense and its object, and the consciousness of pleasure which arises from that contact is called Kama."

The second word, Sutra refers to a discourse delivered on a set of concise rules. Thus Sutra has the connotation of a technical study or manual. Thus, the Sutra was intended to educate the reader in the field of its particular study.

Taken together, the words Kama Sutra imply a technical text on the aspects of properly enjoying the stimulation of the five senses and the demonstration of Love. Unfortunately, the simple wording of the title has led to many misconceptions regarding the text and it is to be noted that the Kama Sutra is neither a sex manual nor a sacred religious text, though it does incorporate both aspects into its writing. While the text is explicit in details of a sexual nature and also intones highly religious themes, it was intended to put Kama in to context with the other two aims of ancient Hindu life, Dharma and Artha. This is evidenced by Vatsyayana’s opening discussion of these three aims at the beginning of the text.

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