Kamasutra Manual

So which of the Kama Sutra Positions can satisfy your women immensely and help her to achieve multiple orgasms? Women now are more concerned about having sexual satisfaction, and how they are treated before and after sex.In the Kama Sutra manual, there are a lot of different techniques, skills, and etiquettes that are essentials for you to know if you want to satisfy her in bed. Sex should not just end with orgasm and ejaculation as this will only leave women to feel dissatisfied and empty.

All the different Kama Sutra Positions have the possibilities to satisfy your lover greatly, but it all depends on whether you are willing to explore new positions and techniques. Let me just share with you one of the best Kama Sutra positions that can make her go wild:

The Widely Opened Position. This positions starts with the woman lying down with her back arched, head thrown back and body raised to meet her partner spreading her legs wide giving an angle of entry to ensure deep penetration.

This position provides more satisfaction to the woman then the man as the genitals comes into contact. This is because this position gives her clitoris full exposure to the friction of the intercourse. However, he might simply miss the feeling of the tight containment as she closes her legs against his penis.

The man can support himself by propping his himself up with his arms. The woman should keep her body arched to meet her lover and look into his eyes to increase the level of intimacy.

You can give your women sexual satisfaction today. Sex is part of your life, and you should make every session of it be a fulfilling and enjoyable one.

Sure when we think of positions related to the Kamasutra we tend to think extravagant and incredibly sensual. But did you also know that a lot of the positions outlined in the Kamasutra are very basic? That’s right, in fact the majority of the hundreds of positions in this ancient text, we probably already use!The Scissors

Now I’m sure you have already tried this one. All it entails is for the woman to lie on her back. The man on his knees then proceeds to hold onto her ankle region and spread her legs wide apart. From this position the man does all the work. This position enables a good passage for the man to enter into and he is able to rotate his pelvis in different directions to help stimulate different parts of the woman’s vagina. Don’t tell me you’ve haven’t tried this one before??

The Scandinavian

The Scandinavian is again very simple Kamasutra position that is often used by couples today. It requires the man to lie on his back to start with. The woman then sits on top facing towards his feet, with her legs rapped over the side of his body. In essence she has her back turned to him. She then does all the work from here, thrusting back and forth, while he holds onto her buttocks and helps to increase the momentum.

This position enables the woman to control the amount sexual pleasure that can be obtained by both participants. If you haven’t tried the Scandinavian than give it a go, it’s incredibly erotic.

The Tigress

The tigress is a Kamasutra position that is a little more complicated to get into. It requires the man to sit down first. From there she should then proceed to sit on top at a perpendicular angle to her partner. Once she has entered on a right angle she should the hold her legs up at a 45 degree angle, placing her left arm around his right shoulder and using her other arm to support herself on the ground. He should the place his hands under her buttocks and ‘do his stuff’ from there. I’m sure you’ll muck this one up at first, but that’s the whole fun of it!

So there are a few Kamasutra positions that are simple yet very erotic at the same time. Make sure you try and have fun with this and don’t take it too seriously. That’s what modern day Kamasutra is all about in the end, making it enjoyable for both people in the relationship!

It is very difficult for me to see how a Hindu in India could have ever, at one time, understood, embraced and practiced the Kama Sutra let alone the Tantric Arts. It is as though sexuality, regardless of any sacred aspect, is something so course here that it has been reduced to staring at women’s breasts, teasing and intimidating and generally playing for the fool any woman who might happen to simply walk by. It’s very hard to handle.
I have my tall, gorgeous, twenty-three year old daughter with me as I’m traveling through India. She is an intrepid traveler, going places on her own I could only dream of being brave enough to go to but she is often brought to her edge by Indian men. And women. The men won’t let her be. There is always some man, young or old, who is outright staring at her, bumping her or harassing her. It’s sad and alarming. It makes travel here uncomfortable a lot of the time. I even get some of it myself, at my age. It has put us in deep wonder about women’s lives here.
Women in the villages and small towns, which is most women, won’t come out of their dark, smoky, hidden little kitchens if the men are around. They won’t look at you, acknowledge you or stick around if we two women come near. If the men are gone to the fields or away sitting talking with other men, which is what they all seem to be doing all of the time in the cities, all breaks open with the women. They come out – really OUT. It’s like night and day.
So many times while traveling we have had this same thing happen. The women are chatty, curious and aggressive – to the point of being scary sometimes – but only if their men are far away. We have been pinched, poked, prodded and cajoled. We have been asked to give up our clothing, jewelry, scarves, pens and anything else that appealed and looked like something they could tell a good story about later. Luckily, we all have laughed together a lot, too, during these encounters. You have to be able to laugh – a lot – at yourself and at the situation. It is the best policy by far.
But what does this mean for their intimate lives? And how, as women, do we understand and accept the fact that in EVERY family, whether villagers or city folk, there is NEVER more than one girl among the children? There are always three to four or more boys of varying ages but never more than one girl. She is often the oldest or second to oldest, too.
What this tells us is that Indian women, whether Hindu or Muslim, must decide how to let their girls go. They get to keep one, only one. Older is better as she’ll be of valuable help to the mother, but after SHE is born there must be now only boys. Can you even imagine what that must feel like? I can’t even fathom it. I’m the mother of three girls and no boys. When I say that, which I do often, I get a sad, poor me kind of face from everyone. I am defective they think. How is this possible, they are wondering.
Imagine killing your daughters. You get just one, remember. Do you give that first one you don’t get to keep to your powerful mother-in-law, who had to do the same with her ‘extra’ girls? Do you be brave and leave her outside, under a bush, away from your home a bit, so you won’t think about it? How can you not think about it? Ever. What about the next and the next? How many times does an Indian woman have to do this in her life? She has to live through nine months of a pregnancy then, not knowing if it is a girl or that wanted boy, go through birth just to have a fifty-percent chance of starting all over again, very soon, to try again for that boy. If there are an average of four boys in a family and one girl then she might have had to do it maybe four or five times in her life. Just don’t attend the new baby girl – leave her, nature will do the rest. Does that make the one girl that does get to survive thankful – is she burdened at a very young age with that thought?
It is all too much for me sometimes. I can’t fathom it. It is because of money – the dowry. It is a burden on families to have to come up with a big pay-off for the girl to get married. Sometimes, even after that, the family is haunted by their new in-laws and their daughter’s husband to give more – the first wasn’t enough. It can drive women to suicide or worst, murder on the part of the husband or his family.
I know that balance is within me. I know that everything is perfect, just the way it is. The Universe is perfect. And yet, I can’t balance this. It doesn’t compute. Sorry for my rants. I know it isn’t very ‘sexy’ but it is THE WAY in the land of the Kama Sutra. I am wondering about sex now. What is that like for Indian men and women?
Love,
Suzie

What is one Kama Sutra Position that will allow you to see your lover face to face, chest to chest, and will be able to kiss, caress and embrace freely? This Kama Sutra Position is what I called “The Pounding Congress”.This position starts with the man sitting at the edge of the bed and calling upon his lover to approach him. The woman will now sit on his thighs, with her legs wrapping around the man’s back.

At this moment, the man will then penetrate her, and uses his arms to caress her breasts, waist and her back. This position gives the most intimacy to the couple, and allows them to kiss, fondle and pet throughout the sexual experience.

When the man is penetrating her, he should continue to kiss and fondle her body. He can also place his hands on her waist to guide her in the thrusting movement. This position will give the man a very deep penetration and allows the woman to feel longer and more satisfying orgasms.

After the man has ejaculated, he should not just leave the position right away. Continue to caress, kiss and embrace each other as there are still a lot of feelings and emotions to be enjoyed at this stage of the sexual act.

Talk to your lover and look in to his or her eyes to increase the intimacy and love of your relationship with one another. Once both of you is ready to separate, remember to do it slowly so as not to spoil the wonderful intimate atmosphere. And last point, this position is also good for a quickie in the office too.

The act of conception has been cloaked in mystery, it seems forever. However, the ancient Indian Rishis who studied all elements of our lives came up with some sexual positions and other techniques that promote conception and pregnancy.Clearly outlined below, these sexual positions and techniques can be either followed (as an aid to conception), or avoided to prevent conception.

The Act of Conception

Clearly the delivery of a man’s sperm into the woman’s womb is the first condition to becoming pregnant.

However, the woman must be in or near her fertile days, the chemistry of her womb but be correct to facilitate the movement of the man’s sperm, and her mental state has to be such, that the very cells of her body are ready to the conceptual event.

Any one of the three conditions out of balance with the other (available and healthy sperm, body chemistry and mental attitude), can prevent conception.

Addressing the Body Chemistry

The woman’s body chemistry changes throughout her monthly cycle. Near, during and slightly after ovulation, her body chemistry inside the womb becomes less acidic and less hostile to the invading sperm.

In fact, as the man’s ejaculation occurs, a special protective layer (a sort of shield) forms around the sperm, and it facilitates the sperm being able to navigate through the cervical mucus…now much thinner during the woman’s fertile period.

The Woman’s Mental State

Hardly understood, a woman’s mental state determines her body’s reaction to the invading sperm.

The sperm can be welcomed or unwelcomed (to use a metaphor), but in any case, if the sexual act places the woman in a relaxed and stressless condition, her uterine contractions (in response to the freshly deposited sperm) will actually propel the sperm quickly towards the fallopian tubes where awaits a fertile ovum (or egg).

Therefore, the man should discover how to relax and calm his partner, and how to help place her state of mind in a calm and relaxed condition.

The Best Sexual Position for Conception

Called by various names by the Indians in the Kama Sutra, by the Arabs in the Perfumed Garden, the sexual position that is most suited to aid conception is commonly known as the “riding high – missionary variant”. Many ancients called it the Crab position.

Actually, it is technically known as the coital alignment position, and is a variant of the people in the West call the ‘missionary position’ The Crab position however is not only suited to aid conception, but during the sexual act its employment will highly stimulate the clitoris, and often cause a massive clitoral orgasm.

As the sperm is ejaculated into the woman’s womb, the orgasm and strong contraction will actually propel the sperm towards the fallopian tubes.

To do the Crab position, the man lies on top, but above the woman with her legs bent back at the knees, and pulled towards her breast. A small pillow (not too big) should also be placed under the woman’s buttocks.

As the man penetrates her, he, glides forward along her body, with the root of his penis (that part closest to the body) stimulating the woman’s clitoris.

No thrusting should occur, but the man and woman will alternately apply pressure to each other’s pelvic regions A circular motion (often called ‘bump and grind’) can also be applied, and in a short while the woman should arrive at a great and profound orgasm. The man should try to finish as near to that event as possible.

The couple staying in this position after ejaculation will also facilitate the sperm being pooled nearer towards its goal. The chances of becoming pregnant in this position (with the other conditions present), are very high.

Now when we think about The Kama Sutra, we tend to think of a book entailed several different sexual positions used to enhance overall sexual pleasure, but is all there is to it?A Guide To Relationships And Life

The Kama Sutra was designed in India many centuries ago and contains information not only about sexual enhancements, but about relationships, marriage and life. Western civilization first became enthralled by its complexity mainly in the area of sexual intercourse and as a result proceeded to extend upon the information in this area.

Nowadays we see a lot of information claiming to be relevant to the Kama Sutra, however the majority of readings out there contain very little information related to this ancient script. When we think of The Kama Sutra we have to try and understand the reasoning behind it.

Why It Was Designed

The Kama Sutra was designed as a means of bringing two people together in an arranged marriage to increase the emotional level of the relationship. This would then cause fewer complications in other areas of life and a peaceful marriage could then be ascertained.

There are a lot of texts out there that contain information not just about sexual positions and the like, but also about increasing the amount of love you and your partner are able to share in your relationship. These are the readings that you should try and stick too.

Sexual Positions Of The Kama Sutra

Now people are incredibly attracted to the variety of sexual positions inside The Kama Sutra, and why not? They are a great way to increase the amount of pleasure not just in the bed, but also reflecting in everyday life. A little extra excitement in the bedroom can do wonders for a persons self esteem!

There are many types of positions that The Kama Sutra conforms to such as – Anjou Style, The Twining of a Creeper, The embrace of the thighs, The embrace of the breasts and many more. It’s pointless trying to describe each one of these positions individually so if you plan to try a couple out, it’s probably best to by one of the many books out there on sexual positions of The Kama Sutra.

Try to remember one thing when it comes to this small piece of The Kama Sutra – what level of emotional commitment do you and your partner share? The physical nature of sexual intercourse can only take you so far in terms of the amount of pleasure you will receive. A strong emotional attachment can create a unbelievable sense of euphoria that I promise you won’t see coming!

Tantra or Tantric Sexuality is making waves in the western world – especially in places where people lead an active lifestyle – but the fact is that this concept has been around in the world since at least five millennia. Tantra is a byproduct of Indian spiritual practices, where sex was an embodiment of everything good. In fact, Hindu philosophy strongly believes in the advantages of union between gods and goddesses and even gods and humans, which is all important in creating the balance of the universe. The art of Tantra teaches – among various other things – the right way of having sex, and we will do better if we call it lovemaking. Tantric science places an almost divine quality on sexuality and that is what the world is appreciating today about it.Both lovemaking and orgasms have great importance in Tantra. Siva is the main male God of the Hindu pantheon, and Shakti is the female embodiment of all energy in the universe. The union between Siva and Shakti is highly celebrated in Hinduism. When this union occurs – as is depicted innocuously with the Siva Linga – the world witnesses the highest form of enlightenment that can be possible.

A person learning about Tantra will be learning about how lovemaking is a divine act, and how it is the source of all life forms in the world. Being so divine in its outlook, the person will also be taught how to prolong his lovemaking act, and how not to force it upon someone else, since mutual consent is the most important part of this union. People having sex will actually experience the energy that was first created by the holy union of Siva and Shakti, and that is what enables them to beget progeny through their act. The only goal in Tantra is to make people more aware of their bodies, and of their sexualities, and to learn to live in harmonious relationships with each other.

Tantra and Sexual Preference

People who learn the art of Tantra begin to understand how to convert sex into a deeply emotional act of love. Here, the preferences are not important – it is not important what you like in sex – but the more important factor is whom you have the intercourse with. For this reason, Tantric sex is open to anyone and everyone who wants to have a blissful sexual episode. Tantrikas – i.e. the people who practice Tantra – place greatly divine status on the sexual act and the energy derived from it, greatly acknowledging the life-giving powers that are embodied within it. In fact, the whole premise is to make individuals into gods and goddesses as they partake of the divine sexual energy that was originated by the divine beings themselves.

The Indian culture or yore has many examples of Tantrikas being educated in the art of sexual commission by spiritual teachers, quite akin to gurus. They used Yoga to teach them control over body and mind, and to make their sexual union a more fulfilling process. With the help of spirituality, lovemaking can be taken to a higher plane of existence.

The concept of Tantric Wholeness is very widespread today. This is the knowledge of a person’s own body, whether it is pleasant or unpleasant. It is a way of knowing more aware of what the body is capable of doing, and to even learn to push it beyond the limits. The concept of Tantric Wholeness is a black-and-white concept; it labels everything in the universe as either good or bad, and people have to make their choices.

If you are frustrated with your sexual life, Tantric Wholeness will not consider the symptoms of your frustration as that means nothing in this branch of knowledge. Instead it will try to address the situation that has brought on the frustration. Was there anything good or bad that was influencing your actions? That is the whole point of Tantric Wholeness. It will also ask questions like, why are you living this life of frustration in the first place? What are your obligations? An answer to such questions will help to probe better into the subconscious and arrive at an answer.

Tantra and Gender Equality

Since the main ground of Tantric knowledge is an awareness of wholeness of the body, you will find that opposites attract in this world. Man attracts female and woman attracts male. In fact, men and women are considered to be complementary to each other rather than opposites. The Ardhanarishwara form of Siva and Shakti together embodies this. Man and woman are not two different entities, but they are one, merged into the single divine being. And for that reason, Tantra believes that there is no quality that is purely male or purely female. Every person is a mélange of both these qualities – only the proportion in which these qualities exist may differ from one individual to another. Tantra says explicitly that people will be able to explore their sexual individualities much better if they get out of this rut of male and female and just think of the opposite gender as a complementary gender – something that they need to complete their existence on earth.

Women can explore where she is man-like. There may be some aspects like leadership qualities, or one-upmanship in sex compared to her man, taking initiatives, guiding her lover and many other such points that are considered to be stereotypically male. Men may submit in sex too, and that could be a feminine side to their personalities. The truth is that by doing such things, neither the man nor the woman is abandoning their own sexualities. They are just becoming one whole, where the complementary factors are uniting and making one universal being.

So, Tantra is a positive way of living, and not just a science of sex as most people think it to be. It is an art that teaches one to celebrate pleasure and not be shy of it. It’s not just sexual pleasure that is spoken of here – but the pleasure derived from eating, drinking, tasting, smelling and even beholding beautiful things is a part of the Tantric pleasure that makes life worth living. Creative expression is a very important thing for experience wholeness in life – and that is the whole essence of Tantra.

Kama Sutra

It is widely known that the Kama Sutra is the oldest surviving treatise on sex. It was compiled by Vatsyayana, an Indian sage about two millennia ago. The work is not counted as original, because Kama Sutra is derived from the ancient Kama Shastras, which were Rules of Love, written down by ancient sages at least three millennia before the present time.

The Kama Sutra is a compendium of sexual norms and customs pertaining to the act of seducing women and lovemaking with them. Since the society at that time was highly patriarchal, the treatise is also masculine in its outlook – in fact, most parts of the Kama Sutra are directly addressed to the male city-dweller, on how he should go about his sexual life. In the only part of the Kama Sutra that is addressed to women, they are only told about how they should submit themselves wholly to appease their men.

Despite that, the lovemaking positions of the Kama Sutra that are so widely publicized today are highly equal for man and woman. The pleasure derived is equal for both genders. Hence, though chauvinistic, Kama Sutra remains very contemporary. The love positions are deemed by experts as equal unions of the male and the female.

Actually, the Kama Sutra is not a guidebook on making sex; and nor is it a manual for the purpose. Today, the Kama Sutra is much imbued with Tantric inputs, which has placed the sexual positions of the book in a deeply sanctimonious manner, even giving them a slight godly manifestation.

In the recent versions of Kama Sutra, five lovemaking positions have been made popular:-

- Man down, woman on top
- Woman down, man on top
- Both on sides, face to face
- Man huddled behind woman’s back
- Seating positions, face to face

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This Kama Sutra sex position is best for new couples who are anxious about sex. This position will allow the couple to cuddle each other lovingly and keeping it at that for a while can remove all anxiety at the same time gives a comforting and unhurried start being together sexually.It is highly recommended that to carry out with the gentle, relaxed, side-by-side clasping position, the man should always lie on his left hand side and the woman lying on her right hand side. However, this is just a suggestion.

However, this Kama Sutra sex position is not just only for new couples. For couple in established relationship, they will find great pleasure and reassurance in adopting this position during lovemaking. The gentle intimacy allows the couple to express and reinforce their feelings of loving tenderness towards each other.

Overall, this Kama Sutra position is a very gentle position which promotes love, care and tenderness.

You should also try to make lovemaking to be a fun and pleasure experience for both you and your partner. Lovemaking should not be treated as a business. Play is also an important part of the early stages of any relationship and definitely play in sex is of no exception.

To prepare for a passionate lovemaking session, you might wish to do the following preparation. Create the ambience of the room, by scenting the room with incense, heated essential oils or scented crystals. Have a shower together and massage each other to remove the fatigue and grimes of the day and also gets you into the mood for love.

Once you can get yourself and your partner into the mood, you can have a unforgettable lovemaking session, no matter what Kama Sutra positon that you chooses to explore with your partner.

For most of the Kama Sutra positions, man is always at the driving seat, doing his work. But there are some positions in the Kama Sutra manual whereby women can act as men, and help him with his part and work when he is tired.There is a saying in the Kama Sutra manual, which says: “WHEN a woman sees that her lover is fatigued by constant congress, without having his desire satisfied, she should, with his permission, lay him down upon his back, and give him assistance by acting his part. She may also do this to satisfy the curiosity of her lover, or her own desire of novelty.” – Kama Sutra

When the woman sees that her lover is tired during the intercourse, she can take the initiative and do the thrusting by her own so as to allow her man to take a rest. The man will appreciate this action by his lover, and will this return a good favor once he has rested enough.

There are actually 2 ways that a woman can act the part of the man. The first is when during congress she turns round, and gets on the top of her lover, in such a manner as to continue the congress, without obstructing the pleasure of it; and the other is when she acts the man’s part from the beginning.

The Kama Sutra also states that while the woman is acting the part of the man, she can say something that has similar meaning to this sentence: “I was laid down by you, and fatigued with hard congress; I shall now therefore lay you down in return.”

When the woman is acting the part of the man and feels tired, she should place her forehead on his and take rest. Upon seeing this, the man should turn around and continue to do the thrusting again.